How a liberal learned to respect conservative thinking and accept the fact that, yes, the right is happier than the left By Catherine Caldwell-Harris Photo by Jessica Scranton What It Means When You Dye Your Hair Purple Should a something information technology specialist, by all accounts a competent employee, be able to dye her long, wavy brown hair purple without getting grief from management?
It seemed so easy when music did it: I wish I could hear that English cadence again, the way I first properly heard it in Durham Cathedral. I was 11 years old. Now I was struck — assaulted, thrown — by its utter beauty: As the Tallis was ending, I saw a middle-aged woman with a canvas shoulder-bag enter the shadowy hinterland at the back of the huge building.
Standing so far away, a singular figure, she might have been a tentative tourist. My parents lived only a mile or so from the cathedral, but I had to board; Tuesday afternoons, before I went back to school, gave me the chance to exchange a few words, and grab whatever she brought in that bag — comics and sweets; and more reliably, socks.
In my memory this is exactly what happened: But it happened 37 years ago, and the scene has a convenient, dream-like composition. Perhaps I have really dreamed it. As I get older I dream more frequently of that magnificent cathedral — the long grey cool interior hanging somehow like memory itself.
These are intense experiences, from which I awake hearing every single note of a piece of remembered music; happy dreams, never troubled. I like returning to that place in my sleep, even look forward to it. But real life is a different matter.
The few occasions I have returned to Durham have been strangely disappointing. My parents no longer live there; I no longer live in the country.
The city has become a dream. Herodotus says that the Scythians were hard to defeat because they had no cities or settled forts: How then can they fail to be invincible and inaccessible for others? Not just to the attacks of others, but to our own adventures in alienation.
I left my home twice — the first time, just after university, when I went to London, in the familiar march of the provincial for the metropolis.
I borrowed a thousand pounds from the NatWest bank in Durham an account I still haverented a van one-way, put everything I owned into it, and drove south; I remember thinking, as I waved at my parents and my sister, that the gesture was both authentic and oddly artificial, the authorised novelistic journey.
In this way, many of us are homeless: The second departure occurred inwhen at the age of thirty I left Britain for the United States. I was married to an American — to put it more precisely, I was married to an American citizen whose French father and Canadian mother, themselves immigrants, lived in the States.
We had no children, and America would surely be new and exciting.
We might even stay there for a few years — five at the most? I have now lived 18 years in the United States. I must have wanted to; there has been plenty of gain. But I had so little concept of what might be lost.
Exile is strangely compelling to think about but terrible to experience. It is the unhealable rift forced between a human being and a native place, between the self and its true home: The achievements of exile are permanently undermined by the loss of something left behind for ever.
I doubt he intended that, but nonetheless, the desert of exile seems to need the oasis of primal belonging, the two held in a biblical clasp. Reflections from a Mutilated Life. I am sometimes homesick, where homesickness is a kind of longing for Britain and an irritation with Britain: I bump into plenty of people in America who tell me that they miss their native countries — Britain, Germany, Russia, Holland, South Africa — and who in the next breath say they cannot imagine returning.
It is possible, I suppose, to miss home terribly, not know what home really is anymore, and refuse to go home, all at once. But perhaps the refusal to go home is consequent on the loss, or lack, of home: For instance, I have no desire to become an American citizen.
I mumbled something about how he was perfectly correct, and left it at that. But consider the fundamental openness and generosity of the gesture along with the undeniable coercion:I have long called myself a social conservative. I think it is very important to have standards for behaviour (etiquette) and defined roles.
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